Typically it is a guy that asks the girl out, but some guys are too shy to do this, Now if there a guy you like, but you are not the type of girl that likes asking guys out, then read this article and I will tell you how to get him to ask you out.
The trick is, you have to realize, if he does like you and he is not asking you out, the reason is because he is afraid of rejection. That is the only reason. So all you have to do is give him signs so he feels like he won’t be rejected. The beauty of giving him hints is it is a nice substitute for you asking him out, you are still being traditional and you never will get rejected because you never actually asked him out.
I know a lot of advice is given and a lot of it is goofy in my mind, stuff that you would see on a romantic comedy, like the girl bumping into the guy. Trust me; from a guy’s prospective if you bump into him, he is just going to think you are clumsy.
First off, go out of your way to talk to him, this will help give him some signs that you are interested.
Next, make good eye contact, and smile a lot.
Get physical, if he had a hard day at work; try to find a reason to give him a massage. You get the idea, get touchy feely.
Start flirting, be giggly, etc.
Another way to make it very easy for him is talk about some romantic restaurant you always wanted to go to or some movie you wanted to see.
You could also go another route saying something like “Wow it is really hot out today; I’d love to the beach today. If he still doesn’t bite on this, there are a couple options – he truly has no guts, he is not interested, or he is clueless.
At this point you are left with only one option, ask him out.
Remember, if it does not work out, there are many guys out there. It may seem like a bummer, but in the scope of things it was just a little bump in the road.
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